Finding interesting hobbies to pursue Valuing your friendships and family Pursuing an interesting, stable career Practicing being confident and strong Keeping a diary to help keep you focused and to remind you of how far you’ve come
It is especially important to avoid certain internal biases and prejudices. Do not judge a person based on his/her skin color, religion, ethnicity, or age. Take some time to get to know the person before you decide whether or not a relationship is worth pursuing. [4] X Research source
Joining a meetup group Participating in a hobby Volunteering for a cause you care about Joining an alumni organization Cultivating the friendships and acquaintanceships you have: invite friends out to dinner, host a few parties, or schedule a happy hour
Smiling and laughing Affirming through nods or verbal agreements Continuing the conversation Using open body language (open arms, legs, and palms) Sharing personal details Making eye contact Asking questions
The gym High places Horror films
Framing your love as destiny instead of as a journey is especially harmful during conflicts or arguments. During happy periods, there is not as much of a distinction. [18] X Research source
This advice does not apply to “imperfections” that are in fact abusive or controlling. If your partner tries to hurt, insult, or isolate you from others, that is a relationship dealbreaker.
Listening actively to your soulmate Forgiving your soulmate for minor mistakes Supporting your soulmate’s hobbies and interests Refraining from entering into relationships with other people (if you choose to be in a monogamous relationship) Expressing gratitude to your soulmate
How important is my career, and can my partner foster that career? Do I want to have children some day? Does my partner? Where do I see myself in 5 years? 10? 20? Can I envision my partner alongside me? Are my partner and I happy living in the same kinds of cities/towns/regions? If your partner is miserable in the city but you can only live in a bustling metropolis, you might want to rethink things.
